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This is the key to every girl's love


Since the beginning of time, countless men have asked themselves the question. What do girls really want? Some believe it's money and enormous riches others believe it's a nice car.

But to understand the truth, we have to go back, way back to the beginning of time as we know it and we have to uncover what it is that makes A men universally attractive? You've heard stories about the alpha males, the bad boys, and the nice guys. But how do all these characters fit into the real world?

Thousands of years ago, you had Julius Caesar who said cowards die many times before their actual death. The nice guy is the perfect example of a coward and since he's always too afraid to speak his mind. He will indeed die many times before he takes his last breath. The most unattractive thing to
most girls is insecurity or weak mind.

Growing up countless nice guys have stood on the sidelines and watched helplessly as all of the girls in their school fought over the jerks and the bad boys. These types of guys don't get the girls because they treat them poorly they get the girls because they unknowingly display personality traits that make them universally attractive.

But what is the number one trait other than confidence that all girls want from a man? The answer to this question is so obvious, but countless guys will go through life without ever knowing the truth and without ever experiencing it firsthand.

It was Julius Caesar who said men work more about what they can't see that about what they can't. As you're walking through a crowd of people you're constantly worrying about what they think of you not realizing that they are doing exactly the same thing.

They fear what others think of them. So much so that they don't speak their mind and they failed to live the life that they truly want to live. The goal is not to invade and conquer other empires but rather to invade and conquer yourself.

The one thing which can make any man universally attractive is courage and becoming courageous is so much easier than you think.

At its core courage is the ability to do something that frightens you or to have strength in the face of pain or sadness. Is the ability to pick yourself up off the ground and keep going even when everyone else has given up. All of this is linked to the nice guys, the bad boys, that alpha male, and the jerks. When the bad boys or alpha males speak their mind sure they might offend you, but in the process, they displayed the courage to say what they really want to say.

In other words, they don't allow the fear of what other people will say or think about them to hold them back from speaking their mind. Courage is what all of the great leaders of history had in common and it is what the nice guy is lacking. It is also what sets the successful apart from the fearful.

A famous quote once said only those who will risk going too far will find out how far they can go. Developing courage is about taking chances and calculated risks. It is about realizing that while you're standing there worried about what others will think of you everyone else is worrying about what you will think of them. It is about doing the exact things that frighten them.

The truth is that the nice guys are boring they keep the same safe job because they don't have the courage to chase their dreams they settle for a partner in life who doesn't really love them because they're too afraid that they'll never find somebody else. Their entire life is based around safety and
staying within their comfort zone.

Imagine the guy who works at McDonald's until he's 60. He plays it safe and he saves all of his money rather than investing it. He never explores the world or new experiences and his entire life
is the definition of boring and predictable.

Now imagine the other guy, rather than playing it safe, he develops the courage to fight for his dreams. After reaching the age of 60 he still hasn't achieved his dreams but right before he takes his final breath, he will have happiness and peace knowing that he gave it everything he had instead of
always playing it safe.

That is courage on a grand scale but A man can develop courage from one day to the next. And it's about doing the things that frightened you. Is about speaking up for those who don't have a voice. It is about choosing to break away from the safe option and things that frighten.

Courage is about being brave in the face of danger or pain and like the old saying goes, it is not about how hard you can hit, but how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. This is the one thing other than confidence that can make any man universally attractive. Translate it to daily life, think about the next time you're playing your favorite video game and can't beat whatever challenge it is you're facing.

Think about how bad you want to give up and then keep going keep pushing forward. Do this anytime you want to give up on something whether its homework or even just video games and the girls will take notice. It was Julius Caesar who said I came I saw I conquered. Developing courage starts with conquering yourself from the inside and facing those things that frighten you and it's about never giving up even when the odds are stacked against you. 

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