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9 Ways to Attract the Girl of Your Dreams

Nine ways to attract the girl of your dreams.



 "Aah, love," they say it makes the world go round. If you already have that special someone in your life then consider yourself lucky.

As for the rest of us we're either still looking or still dreaming for a certain person to fall for us and if you are ready to finally take that leap of faith and make your dreams a reality here are nine ways
to spark a girl's interest.

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All right with all this talk about love and attraction. Let's first establish what they are exactly.
According to biologists anthropologist, Dr. Helen Fisher love can be split into three categories lust, attraction, and attachment.



Lust is driven by the need to reproduce and it stimulates the production of testosterone and estrogen, the male and female sex hormones.

Attraction is a little different when we're attracted to someone our brain releases dopamine and serotonin. It's the combination of these chemicals that make us feel all giddy and exhilarating.

Attachment appears in long-term relationships and causes our brains to release oxytocin and vasopressin. These hormones make us feel deeply bonded to the people we love.


With all these hormones running among. It's no wonder falling in love can be a confusing experience. So, perhaps this little guide will help you sort it all our and more importantly get her brain chemicals pumping with attraction to you.


#1  Be yourself.

 Physical attraction does play a pretty big role in the whole scheme of things. I mean you want to turn
her head right. But we aren't just attracted to a person's looks.

 Having chemistry that's based on someone's personality's habits and behaviors, isn't to be underestimated when it comes to attraction.

 We might be attracted to someone and fall in love with them because of how they laugh they're cute
little quirks and mannerisms or their cleverness that's why being yourself is so important.

If you're a shy nerdy sort of guy, trying to pose as an extroverted jock type just to impress a girl then
you're setting yourself up for failure.

No matter how good your acting skills maybe she'll sense that something's awry(away from the usual or expected coursetrust me.

Besides you want her to fall in love with you, not some character you think of just to get her to notice you. The best thing you can do before you pursue someone is to build up your confidence.

Start by asking yourself what are my positive qualities? Are you funny, smart, creative, athletic, nerdy?

 Once you know the answer play up your strengths. True confidence means that you know who you are and are comfortable and happy with yourself.

When a person is confident it shows in their demeanor and it's a real turn-on. Just be careful not to let
self-confidence turn into cockiness. which on the other hand, is a real turnoff.


#2 Be Willing To Improve.

It's great to know your strongest points but you need to be realistic too. Be willing to admit to yourself what things you need to work on.

We all have aspects of ourselves that we'd like to improve. Maybe you want to be more outgoing or well-read perhaps you feel insecure about your weight. As long as it's something you can proactively work on there's nothing wrong with wanting to become a better version of yourself.

Again be realistic, if you hate your freckles well there's not much you can do about that. Besides freckles are totally adorable. Once you start improving on the things that make you self-conscious your confidence will naturally grow and this isn't just for attracting a girl this is for you.

But as an added bonus it'll probably get her attention too. A man who's willing to work on himself and develop as a person is a catch in any girl's eyes.

#3 Care of Yourself.

Now here's where that whole physical attraction thing comes in. Dr. Fischer explains that people know whether or not they're attracted to someone within the first 30 seconds of meeting them.

 So, first impressions do matter keep yourself well groomed and dressed for success. If you approach her right after an intense workout and you smell like it.

She probably won't get a chance to fully appreciate your wonderful personality and charm. This doesn't mean you need to go overboard and wear a suit and tie every day being clean smelling good and dressing casually. But tidy shows that you're self-aware of how you might come off to other
people and you make an effort to take care of yourself and yes, the girl of your dreams will notice.

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 #4 Be Open and Communicative.

 Does the girl you like know you're interested in her if not that's fine? It's always a good idea to start things off slowly by first building a close friendship.

If you confess your love for her when you've only known each other for a week. She's probably going to assume that you were confusing love with lust. Get to know her first by being open and communicative.

That way she'll get to know you too. Of course, don't drag your feet about it either. Once you feel like you're not strangers or even just acquaintances anymore let her know that you're interested in more than just a friendship.

 She'll respect the fact that you were being open and honest about your intentions. Plus plucking up the courage to be so straightforward takes confidence which she'll appreciate as well.


 #5 Show dedication.

Being in love can be a beautiful thing but it's not all rainbows and sunshine. If the girl you like is going through a hard time being there for her for emotional support. This will show that you are not afraid of deep conversations and showing your soft side.

 If she trusts you enough to open up to you that's a really good sign. Just keep in mind that once Trust
is broken it can be almost impossible to get it back. So try not to lose it in the first place.

#6 Be Romantic.

Being romantic is an expression of appreciation and affection. It's like the cherry on top of the cake or the frosting on top of your ice cream. Wait, reverse that. There are lots of ways to be romantic depending on your resources.

You could take her to a nice restaurant or out on a simple picnic. If you are really short on funds don't sweat it. You could draw her a romantic cartoon make her a handmade gift or just surprise her with some chocolates in her back.

What's important is that she knows that you're thinking about showing her affection. A gift from the heart can be much more meaningful than one from the wallet. Of course, the best gifts are ones that are personalized.

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If you've taken the time to get to know her better you should know if she's into grandiose gestures like huge bouquets of flowers or the simple stuff like handmade gifts. If you are unsure if she'll like something you're planning you can always ask her close friends or family members.

Showing appreciation and affection through romance goes a long way to attract someone and build a happy relationship with them.

#7 Accept Her for Who She Is.

No one is perfect and chances are the girl you like isn't either. we all have our redeeming qualities what is it that you love about her. Try to respect and accept what makes her unique. Don't ever compare her looks achievements or flaws to those of another person and don't try to change her into someone she isn't.

The same way that you can improve. So can she but we can only become better versions of ourselves, not other people. If there's something that she does that genuinely hurts or bothers you, just be honest
about how you feel. If she respects your feelings she'll change her behavior for the better, just be honest about.


#8 Be Individuals.

Whether you're still just friends and getting to know each other or you've already entered a new
relationship. This initial period of attraction can be a super exciting time as much as you want to impress this girl from the get-go.

 Don't forget that you two are individuals don't blow off your friends' families or hobbies just to spend more time with her. And don't expect her to do the same. It's okay to have different interests. You don't have to lie and say something just because she does.

 On the other hand, there is something called compromise. She might get really excited about a video game that you find boring or you might be looking forward to watching a TV show that she finds annoying.

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You don't necessarily have to do these activities together but if you do just remember that you are two different people don't bash your taste just because they aren't the same as yours.


#9 Always remember to treat her with respect.

 If you followed all these tips to a tee and the girl of your dreams just doesn't fall for you it's totally
okay. Respect her decision if she doesn't want to start a relationship with you. Never pursue someone if they've explicitly told you that they're not into you in that way. You might very well
find a loving partner in the future one who you love and who loves you back. 


Have any of these tips helped you? What do you do to attract someone you like? Tell us in the comments below and don't forget to subscribe to our blog.